Sex is everywhere — if we're not watching actual sex scenes on TV or in the movies, we're watching celebrities parade down red carpets practically naked. It's not just porn that sets unrealistic expectations for what's sexy anymore, and it can be hard to feel like you measure up when it comes time to get naked IRL. But if you want to keep sex fresh in a long-term relationship or you want to feel more confident in the bedroom, there are plenty of things you can do without going OTT. Just give these tricks a try. People should not have sex without talking about it — lovingly, salaciously, practically, fearlessly — and often. How else can we know how to thrill each other? Couples don't ask for what they want because they're afraid they won't get it.

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A whopping 59 percent of men and women say they want to make their sex lives more playful and fun , according to a new survey released today by International Communications Research and sponsored by We-Vibe. But if most people are craving more excitement in bed, why are we still having run-of-the-mill sex? Take your sex life from meh to amazing with these tips from the experts:. Also worth nothing: Great sex can exist without an orgasm.
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Whether you're in a longterm relationship or you just have trouble expanding your horizons past your go-to moves, there are ways to make sex more interesting. Even if you love routine, sometimes the greatest things in the world can get a little boring after a while — and yes, that includes sex. But, good news: there are things you can do to revive it and products that can help the process along. According to certified sex therapist Vanessa Marin, having a " beginner's mind " can make a huge difference when it comes to enhancing your sex life. That means staying playful, suggesting new things, and being able to laugh when things don't go quite as planned. Of course, you're more than allowed to reject something when you're not feeling comfortable, but keep the lines of communication open — let your partner know that you're not interested, and then go forth in your search to find something that will give pleasure to both of you. If you're looking for new and innovative ideas to spice things up in the bedroom, check out these surprising products that can help. The Serendipity massage candle has a coconut vanilla scent that immediately transforms the mood in the bedroom, but that's not all. As it heats up, it produces a warm liquid massage oil made from coconut and jojoba oil.
Wondering how to have good, great, or just better sex? Try these tips from research and experts. You're not quite sure how—or when—it happened. You used to have great sex, but suddenly your it just isn't what it used to be. By 11 p.