You have asked a question to which there is no satisfactory answer — unless you decide to prioritise all other aspects of your relationship over sexuality. Trying so hard to reconcile the irreconcilable is making you very sad - and no wonder; such a gulf between thoughts and feelings commonly pitches a person into depression. This problem is not going to get better by itself, so it must be addressed urgently and directly. You need to have a very focused conversation with your girlfriend, in which you must share your true feelings without apportioning blame. Help her to see how unhappy this situation is making you, and ask her to describe her own feelings, while listening empathically. It is also essential to ask her to try to help you understand the reason for her disinterest in sex. There are many possible causes of low libido, some of which require treatment. For example, perhaps she is suffering from anxiety, stress, depression, vaginismus or hormonal imbalance. Perhaps she needs you to change your style of initiation or your love-making technique.
Methods for proving your innocence for all of you who are just friends.
Option 1: Talk to him
I start thinking about how we have nothing in common and I hate her little annoying Chihuahua that she takes with her everywhere. Or do you think I could change the relationship to a friends with benefits type of deal? Believe it or not, many men wind up in a similar situation. Finding a solution might not be easy, but we can unpack the problem together to gain further clarity so that you can make the right decision. Guys are usually more fixated on physical intimacy than women. We value sex much more than other parts of a romantic relationship, especially in the beginning. We have a strong sex drive and a wandering eye. So, you might need to just give it some more time before you consider throwing away the whole relationship. Things could improve on their own. Your girl is a giver and it sounds like she takes good care of herself.
Should I run?
If you are a relatively normal guy, then sex is a big and important part of your relationship. Sure, there is more to get from a girlfriend other than sex. You, or society, or your girlfriend can make you feel bad about the high level of importance you may have for sex in a relationship. Sex is a wonderful, organic, and natural thing that is a staple for all living things. Most of the complaints are pretty standard. Here are some common complaints guys have about bad sex. Even if you are a premature ejaculator, you still want sex to last a while. Some women only like missionary. Some only want doggie.
E very person who talks to your significant other is not trying to sleep with them. I am limited in my selection of male friends. I am more drawn to sitting down over a glass of wine and shit-talking the world. Everyone is different, but women are more likely to be up for the latter. The problem comes when their boyfriends want to know why they spend time with me because, according to them, I am absolutely trying to sneak my way into their pants.
